Top Five Reasons Spouses Are Unfaithful

The same may be said for unfaithful mates that are not in the spotlight. Although they might not have to worry about never ending paparazzi, there are plenty of people watching what they are doing.
Why then do people nowadays cheat on their spouse? Probably for the same reasons folks have cheated since the beginning of relationships. Arguably the main reasons are:


1. Lust

It’s as elementary as can be. A spouse comes across somebody that captures their fancy and then all bets are off. They want that individual no matter the repercussions. Once they scratches that particular itch the process starts all over again. It is similar to an alcoholic who can never ever get enough to drink.

2. Self Doubt

The husband or wife for whichever reason doesn’t feel very good about themselves. It matters little that they are with someone that cares for them deeply and also continuously tells him or her how terrific they are. It is still not sufficient. So they go out and have an affair in the hopes that it will fill the emptiness they feel yet all the while knowing it won’t. The insecure husband or wife is often overcome with remorse but it doesn’t stop them from being unfaithful.

3. Care Free

This is the group that tells themselves that life is too short so you have to please yourself anyway possible. If this happens to be in the shape of a marital affair then that’s the way it goes. No one should deny their self of enjoyment. Besides they do not mean any harm. That’s just the way it goes.

4. Monotony

The couple are in a completely familiar routine therefore the philandering mate is looking for a little bit of excitement. Anything that is going to break the boredom thereby making them feel to life once again. The easiest way to achieve this is connect with somebody and then carry on an affair. They are fully aware that it is wrong yet the joy of being freed from the boredom of everyday life is definitely worth the risk.

5. Unsure

Your wife or husband doesn’t know what they want. One moment it is domestic bliss with their soulmate the next it’s the overwhelming impulse to be not married and playing the field. They may love the concept of marriage but aren’t entirely prepared to put aside what they had before.